Hey Canyou , its great to hear from another supporter . I really appreciate it . Words of understanding and support are always welcome . Yes I will agree 100 % this is the most difficult and heartbreaking thing I ve ever dealt with . The uncertainty of it all is very upsetting . Never really knowing what she thinks of me . Even if she told me today that she does love me it would be hard to believe . Im still in shock in alot of ways even though its been over 5 months since DD .It really does help to detach and GAL but the days when you slip back into the abyss it seems to erase all the good i ve done


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )