mdu---I am following along with you and for what it's worth, I think you're doing great considering what/who you've got to work with. (Hahah )
I agree with Wonka that your H is making some big strides.
Sure, they're bogged down in OW weirdness, his personal issues... but he's in counseling, he's talking.
That's a big plus.
Like Wonka said, hold onto the POSITIVES.
Feel the pain, have a good cry, then try and refocus on what's going right.
(Now if I could just take my own advice.,, I'm working on that!)
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?