Have I any hope.... (Part 3)

[bashy]

Hi all. Looking advice from vets. My WAW is obviously struggling at the minute with the reality of being a single parent plus under enormous pressure regarding her IVA. I have set boundaries of not giving/offering any financial support plus she has definitely noticed me GAL'ing. I've also been staying away from texting and ringing unless to do with D.
My question is this. She will contact me regarding support/advice for IVA. How should I deal with this? Should I offer advice? Support her in some way?
I read an example letter/post from Michelle of a guy who was there as a friend to his WAW. Supporting her when she needed... she eventually realised this support and they grew closer again before reuniting.
I understand the 'having your cake and eating' phrase but want to get a fine line.
Thanks everyone.