Rick, it doesn't depress me. It actually doesn't bother me at all. It made no difference in our evening conversation. I think it just surprised me...as did sudden outpouring of communication with someone who I've said "Happy Sabbath" to about three times in the five months I've been there...and that's it. Although Mr. Woody was saying "go for it", my brain was saying "uh uh". Her sitch is pretty much the same as my last gf but she seems way more independent and willing to address her fears and take care of her own sh!t. She does a lot of stuff at church, like leads the Sabbath School service, sings, plays instruments for the service etc. She said "I do feel scared when I do these things but when they ask me I just do it anyway!" She says she'll play guitar at my baptism...whenever that is
