Dpthght, your situation is so similar to mine. My WAW suffers from depression. I have been trying to get her to be more social for a few years. She started an EMBA program in March and began spending lots of time with a group of students there (originally for projects). She went on an International Seminar trip to Paris for 2 weeks, had an "awakening" and dropped the bomb on me when she got back. I'm DBing as best as I can and hoping she will eventually come out of the fog, and realize that she does love me, or at least had for years (she currently denies she ever did) and that she can feel like that with me again. So far I have had some micro victories, so I'm trying to stick to it (detach, GAL, 180, no expectations, give her space, be a friend) while keeping an eye out for the next microgoals.
Hang in there and DB as much as you can.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
