welcome back dawgy- It really is crazy what they say to justify the A sometimes. I can't make sense out of much these days. Don't try to figure it out.
Look at what mrbond posted on my thread about being the lighthouse. It is helping me.
hang in there!!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015