Hey all . Dawgy here . I m still hanging on . Wife has been having a PA and EA for 9 months now . lol so much for being one of the lucky ones when the affair burns out inside of six months .Just my luck .
She said something funny to me ( or at least I thought it was funny )about two months ago when i said " weve been together 27 years and I expected alot more loyalty from you " She said " well hes (OM) been waiting for me for 30 years " ( they were junior high sweethearts , touching , isnt it )So she basically said he had more rights to her than me because he was there first . At least thats what seems like shes saying or at least trying to use that for another way to justify her A . One of many reasons shes used to justify . Anyway I thought it was ridiculous when she told me about that . Ive since tried to make the connection between them and what she has told me doesnt seem to be true


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )