What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

Thanks bdub, yes she told me there was someone else the day she told me she no longer loved me and wanted out. I had to confront her about what was wrong as she had been acting off and distant for a couple weeks. I'm going to go read your sitch now.

In other news I backslid hard on monday night, she started pressing for the sale of the house and out of fear of this becoming permanent i started up my old convincing ways again. I said a lot of things I shouldn't have mostly about guilting her for the OM. On the bright side I feel my detachment is complete, I've said my piece and understand fully there is nothing I can say (or probably do at this point) that will fix this.