GG, MLCers like to talk babble speak. You have to really listen to what they are saying and sift through the garbage to get to the bottom of the babble. Body language will tell you more about what your h. Be patient, but listen and do not try to reason w/him. You can't reason w/someone who is emotional, as well as bouncing off the wall like a ping pong ball.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
