Small update: dance teacher came by and said he had heard W and I are getting divorced. We then proceeded to have a discussion, during which his advice was to "find the lion" in me (i.e. react, get angry, push back).
He had heard this via a realtor friend, with whom I plan to talk and ask him to stop broadcasting this.
House facade is being renovated, so I need to hang around until this is finished, delaying my trip to the US. It turns out we live in a Lincoln log construction!
