In a weird and twisted way it does make me feel a bit better that he is still doing it with OW. To be honest, I was mystified why he did not try to get back together with me already. Why he at least did not try to have sex with me. I guess that sounds arrogant but let's be honest, I'm pretty terrific. And if he was all alone I was amazed at his self control not calling me all the time and wanting to have the comfort of my company.
But since he is still involved with OW and in that fog, he is not really thinking of me that way at this point. He is trying to comfort himself with her. Replace our marriage with a relationship with her, that he sees as potentially better than ours.
I'm guessing if she does something really bad or he gets disgusted with her for some reason that he will then be trying to get back with me. I need to be on the lookout for that, I don't want to be the rebound - it's worse than backup!
Hope everyone is having a good day/evening. Hugs, Lisa
