Pilot, my wife is not much different on that front about talking R. The problem is they hold all this inside them buried so deep for so long. My w has issues from childhood that she hasn't fully delt with. She has always been afraid to ask for what she needs. No love from her dad growing up. That's a big demon
Does your w have any of those issues. Has she ever talked to you about them. My W has brought them up at times in M and I tried to fix instead of just listening.


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14