Pilot, my wife is not much different on that front about talking R. The problem is they hold all this inside them buried so deep for so long. My w has issues from childhood that she hasn't fully delt with. She has always been afraid to ask for what she needs. No love from her dad growing up. That's a big demon Does your w have any of those issues. Has she ever talked to you about them. My W has brought them up at times in M and I tried to fix instead of just listening.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14