Yea, but that is why they call it a roller coaster. One day great, the next...terrible. The question is how long can we hang on to this ride? It is not easy at all and I know I feel more and more jaded each day. Today for example, I kept muttering to myself "what does she have to offer in a marriage? Fidelity? No. Loyalty? No" I do not know why, but I was hung up on this all day. Could be a product of my mood. But this is why we have to detach. So days like this do not affect our lives. We get in a funk because we allow things like this and our spouses actions to affect us negatively. Easier said than done, and even the best detachers still feel the sting every now and then.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16