Yea, you are right about letting life happen. I cannot say for sure but it seems my wife has had moments of second thoughts. She has never said anything to me like your W did. I would have a better chance of dating Kate Upton than getting her to talk R. She just does not want to/is afraid to. She always has been.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16