Dealing with WAW part 4

[pilot]

igit, I am not sure if OM is in the picture or not. I would suspect she still keeps in contact with him through phone/text/fb etc. No reason for her to quit. Seeing him physically would be a little more difficult as we moved 700 miles away from where he was and economics would likely keep any meeting from happening. Again, I have no idea one way or the other, and I have done nothing to try and find out. I am sure you are aware a relationship built on lies and deception are likely not to last, but do you really believe they think of their relationship that way? I doubt it. Maybe in hindsight AFTER it is over.

But you are right. Because we have kids with our Ws we will be stuck with them for a long long time. So I know there is no escaping or simply walking away. The flip side is they are not free of us either. If there is any demon they are carrying around or hidden guilt, it will show itself at some point. Sooner or later, they will have to face the truth about their actions, and that truth is what they did was wrong...regardless of the state of the M.