Dealing with WAW part 4

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Pilot is other m still in picture. That I know can be a big problem..my w denies even though a month ago I saw her car in his garage. Remember believe nothing they say. My strategy is to keep on being best dad I can be and lose all anger towards her. Be indifferent but interested. Your comments on is this really who she is?. I think these affairs really do act like a drug. They know it's wrong, but they need a fix...they feel something they haven't felt in a long time...I don't know but believe a relationship built on lies and deception doesn't have much of a chance to survive. I feel they are trying to get us to reject them. They may actually be afraid of the new us. Maybe they feel there not good enough. Just my two cents..