Wait a minute. You're going to hear about the dog nipping at OW but you're not allowed to address OW and J picking on S?! No. The dog is a dog and if he/she is feeling attacked then it will protect itself by nipping... holding a dog when it doesn't want to be held means you need to be prepared to be nipped. You can't ask a dog to not act like a dog. You can, however, ask J to act like a father and NOT pick on his son with OW.
::shrug:: sorry, I get a little heated with how kids are treated by WAS and their OM/W.