help me i am new here

[MrBond]

"Issues were several. My depression for several years"

Too vague. Please elaborate. The more detail you can give, the better. Just stick to what YOU did.

"and ultimately her single friends and clubbing every Friday Saturday and losing interest and detaching from me. "

This doesn't count. There was probably a reason. Stick to the things that YOU did wrong in the M and not the consequences. For example, did you NOT want to go out with her? Did you ever? Did you scold her for going out?