rough couple of days, had a convo with h last night about his priorities as far as the kids go, that they need to come first, and finally he heard me, I asked what he had planned for fathers day next week, and he said he'd canceled his plans to go to the snow with ow so he can spend the day with the boys. This made me happy because desperately want spend quality time with him. small step, llet's hope it continues. my gal is getting better, detaching is not. When I back off of have a melt down he advances, when all is good he disappears.
