I think, knowing him, that he will try and force me into taking the lead and opening myself up--he will not be vulnerable.
After all, he didn't offer up anything but "the future" and "what do YOU want?"
He won't say what HE wants. Then he might not get it. (I wonder if his therapist suggested this. It's actually very odd at the moment.)
But honestly, I don't want to talk about anything heavy with him.
He's a MESS. It could go very wrong even if I do everything right.
But listen, validate... I can do that.
And agree to do nothing except think about whatever is said.
Thanks!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?