It is clear that H's all over the map with his thoughts, feelings, and words. Whatever he's going through is clearly making him frustrated and it is coming out of every orifice in his body. Also see a lot of projection there as well.
Good job on not falling for his crap.
Now when you have the talk about the future, I suggest that you throw out some real hard truth darts at H about the double-standard of him coming and going as he pleases while demanding to know your "hours."
What about him??! He is not your boss and cannot treat you like that any more. He cannot control when you want to come home. It is your boundary.
I find it ironic that he doesn't want to be AROUND you when you are in the house because he is not comfortable on certain days/times. It is not like he has to put on a hazmat suit to enter the house..ya know!
Fer cryin' out loud...it should be YOU who needs to put on the hazmat suit!
