I did not want anything threatening. I just wanted him to state please do not contact me, my wife, etc. The last 6 months have been the biggest mistake of my life. No threatening or anything along those lines just matter of fact.
Is that unrealistic or do you have any tips on what should or could be said
***** warning. I have ZERO experience with this, please solicit other opinions (or let my thoughts get critiqued) before sending them.****
Keep subjective emotion type things out of it: doesn't matter if it was the "biggest mistake". Just stick with the bullet points:
I believe our relationship was inappropriate, and was a mistake. Please do not contact me, my wife, or family so we can try to heal and honor our commitment to God. Only he should sign, but you mail it.
The same letter should be sent to father and mother. But keep relationship out of it. (Your probably going to hate this, but...)I think as a matter of courtesy, it would be "nice" for him to actually thank them for the shelter they provided for around 6 months. Regardless of their role in "throwing gas on the fire", they did open their home to him.
All of these should be done after he officially gets his final paycheck.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
