2B- Thanks for stopping by. My story is kind-of... well... different... but the same, in that, it's not what "we" had planned. H moved out 12/1, didn't know about hww until last month, when I found out about her she was 4 months preg and they had just bought a house together.
You are right on- one day at a time! Every day brings a new emotion! Like Forest Gump- "You never know what you're gonna get."
GGG, yup... I get it. I was on cloud 9 my 2 good days. I thought I'd turned a page. Funny how I got flipped right back into LBS mode. I'm determined, however, to make every day the best I can. I have a lot to be grateful for.
HWW: I love your guesses. Probably anyone would fit. I consider her a home-wrecking Wh0re. Actually- they both are. Is it bad that I want everyone in town to know that? I really have been so mature (outside of here) about the whole thing. I can say I have kept composure and class... but the fact that they walk around like it is something to celebrate is terrible. The fact that her family is celebrating her new relationship and family around town is CRAZY. HWW grew up here and neither my h nor I did. Neither one of us ever worked in this town either. We settled here 14 yrs ago. The only real connection is that our kids went to school here. So her mom moved here when hww was little or a baby or something. And her MOM knows people WE know, not hww. It is weird. Do they not realize there is a family that is devastated and beaten down by this? I mean, really?
They stink. I'm just aggravated. Hww lived about 50 min away with her x. Now she is back here to start a new fam. It seems like a celebration, right. AAAHHHHHH! I can't move my kids! My son is a senior this year. They just have no idea the hurt feelings that continue in this house. When you are defensive, you can't appreciate the damage you are causing someone else.
Thanks, peeps, for checking in. Just venting. IT WILL GET BETTER! For all of us....
