Thanks, Bond and Wonka. I was worried about excommunication here for sending the letter, but my gut told me it was the right thing to do.
And I'm continuing to work on me. Twice a week therapy, three or four 12-step meetings a week, and ZERO distracting behavior -- aside from these forums, that is.
DB
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14