So, I have been GAL'g, etc. Swam laps (badly!) at the pool yesterday for the first time in forever. Gonna do a sprint triathlon before winter hits. I stink in the water, but am hopeful about my bike times. The real goal is to finish.
I can picture a life after divorce, which I need to consider to maintain a mental outlook of "no expectations." (And, you know, she filed and it only takes 61 days uncontested in TX.) But I cannot, for the life of me, picture sitting down with my 8 and 11 YO children and having the talk. It is the one thing that may break my calm, as I know I will want very badly to say to my W - "Well, why don't you explain to THEM why you are doing this." She sure hasn't given me anything resembling a real explanation.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
