I just think now another woman in the picture with a WAW puts them in a place where they feel pressured that they need to be sure they are making the right decision. I don't know for sure that's how your WAW is but I know that's how mine is.
That to me makes perfect sense. However, it better be a real LF and not just a scam move because if you bluff your W with a LF, you better be ready to have that bluff called!
The other flip side is if your W sees you actively dating, and she happens to not be, she might just decide to the same.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16