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I just think now another woman in the picture with a WAW puts them in a place where they feel pressured that they need to be sure they are making the right decision. I don't know for sure that's how your WAW is but I know that's how mine is.


That to me makes perfect sense. However, it better be a real LF and not just a scam move because if you bluff your W with a LF, you better be ready to have that bluff called!

The other flip side is if your W sees you actively dating, and she happens to not be, she might just decide to the same.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16