Saving my family - Part 13

[Scorp7]

I have moved on, as much as I can at this point anyway, and realize that she definitely not only does not want to live in my province she absolutely doesn't want to be married to me any longer. That's been VERY clear for a long time now.

The thing is, whether she wants to or not, there is reality to consider. If our home in my province does not sell and we continue the way we are, we will go under. If she came back, we not only would not go under she could have a nice place of her own, I could keep the place our kids love, everyone is great other than she doesn't get to live where she wants.

I don't know for sure if she's seriously with this other guy over there or not. Frankly, I don't care as long as he does not do anything what so ever to harm my kids. Regardless, she has a choice to make, her new flame in her province or come back to the old and have her kids be secure for a long time to come.

I have made sure my lawyer will insist on the custody order. It has also been noted that I am incurring extreme financial hardship because of her actions. I've also had her include the fact I have paid for ALL of the expenses related to the acreage property. If she wants to be nasty then I will be going after her for paying her share which is a VERY large bill at this point.

I do still love my wife, I likely always will. Having said that, I hate what she is doing to all of us for the sake of her own happiness. It doesn't seem that she is even truly happy. I can accept that we won't be together as hard as that is, it's not the life I wanted for my kids. What I can't accept, or at least I can't understand, is her insistence on living where she is. She can have a great life back in my province, we could move on immediately and with all of us much better off than if we continue to go down the path she's forcing us on.

I've definitely lawyered up, it's cost me a LOT of money already. Money I did not want to give to a lawyer. Money that should have gone to my kids. I don't see that I had a choice. I can only do what I can, try to control what I have control over. My W is still dictating a lot of the situation, she will always be involved. That's something I can't control and as long as she continues to make the decisions she has then my family is in for a much harder road ahead than we would have had to face otherwise.