I've also started talking my therapist about the Madonna/Whore complex. Seems very applicable to my situation. Not sure what the path to recovery from that looks like.
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14