Yeah but make no mistake, if WAW decides she wants you back I don't think a LF will stop her from trying. I am basing this off something my WAW told me...she said if she decided to reconcile that she would contact me and ask me how serious I am with so-and-so. I told her that would be a pretty gutsy move on her part but that's what she said she would do. I just think now another woman in the picture with a WAW puts them in a place where they feel pressured that they need to be sure they are making the right decision. I don't know for sure that's how your WAW is but I know that's how mine is.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14