Hey SS, I am in MA. Keep in mind we filed a "no fault" divorce...and there were no assets, kids, cars, etc. Just the two of us, two cats, and an apartment...and we weren't fighting over anything. So that sped up the process I think.
We filed June 27...had hearing July 17...and yesterday the nisi doc came saying we are married until November 17. This was why WAW kept telling me she was shocked the court date came so quick. I was too! Yeah it's funny that WAW said that about me changing and wanting credit...it was really reading DB twice and reading advice here that made that happen...otherwise I would've been a blubbering, sobbing, pleading mess around WAW otherwise. I guess she feels like since she walked away that that's what prompted these changes she's wanted all along. She has expressed displeasure many times that the changes were made after she left. I just tell her they would've been made even if you stayed.


Oh I don't know Pilot, my WAW acts like she is happy for me to have LF. She even goes so far as to say "maybe you'll fall in love with her!" As if she'd be happy for me. I don't believe that for a minute, I just think WAW knows she's at a place now where she either has to change her mind or let me move on. I don't believe that about your WAW either, I'm sure she cares and would be jealous of a new woman in your life. It's only natural that someone wants to critque their replacement. My WAW asked a friend of mine who met my LF at a function all kinds of questions about what she looked like, her personality, etc.

Last edited by ItHurts; 08/27/14 07:52 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14