It's been 12 days since my last post. Here is a summary of updates.
1. While I thought for sure that she'd spend as much time as possible with the OM while she's alone, evidence is to the contrary. I'm not sure why. Also, no evidence to suggest the OM was at our house. She did spend quite a bit of time with her parents.
2. We kept in touch daily (often many times a day). It was mostly so she could talk to the kids. I sent her photos regularly and always received positive responses.
3. She got a job offer at another company and she will be leaving her current job shortly.
4. The OM will be leaving out of state (2000 miles away) to start his job in 4 weeks.
5. The OMW contacted her to basically thank her. She believes strongly in fate and her husband's A with my W indirectly led to an early detection of cancer in her father which she is grateful for. This was all that my W told me about their conversation, and I didn't ask any other questions about it.
6. When I returned from the trip, she appeared genuinely happy to see me, although she did not give me a hug or anything like that. She did say good night to me and touched my hand. I know, small body language gesture, but I'll take what I can get.
7. She also said to me that the cruise that we booked for November is still on. Days after BD, she said that the OM will be going on the cruise with her. Weeks after, she said we will be canceling it. Now she's backed all the way to saying that we're still going on it, as originally planned 8 months ago. When I asked why she changed her mind, her response was, "I haven't gone away at all this year (on vacation) and I need a break."
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
