First post - My WAH story

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Jacket....if his version does not fly with you then in no way send it. And be honest and upfront with him. Worst case scenario is you cannot agree on an email to send out and IMO that would be best anyways. I still do not see the NEED to send an email out to the world announcing your D. It is a private thing between you and your H, why does the world need to know details? If you send out an email which does not reflect your true feelings, and then later try to talk to a friend about your M and what you say does not reconcile with your email, it makes you look bad. Just tell your H not to send out an email to everyone. He wants to do it to make himself feel better and more importantly LOOK better to all of your friends. Why should you compromise your feelings, emotions, and thoughts simply for his personal gain?