All I can say at the moment, Thank Goodness that I am not new to these boards...they would have lost me. I remember how I used to wait desperately for a reply and this shut down would have pained me terribly. They should have done it over night.
S18's girlfriend is showing. He is going to have to break the news to grandparents soon. I don't envy him in that regard, it is going to be brutal especially from my dad. Once he calms down though, he might be able to reason with S18. My, I hope so. Living in a fantasy before baby is one thing, living in it after is another.
My kids are down on my thoughts on the whole matter. They are being supportive they say. I am being a realist. Odds are not in their favor, medical issues will most likely be a factor, really not a happy topic and my wouldn't you want it to be if you were having a baby?
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
