Yup yup agree. With the kids the ultimate goal should be to remain a parenting team. My h says he coparents with xw1 UT that is not true. It is more, like parallel parentibg. He did his thing and she did hers. The result was a lack of consistency and stability for the kids.
Now all the other stuff- she is on her own.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15