So I thought the night was through when my wife asked what the schedule for this week looked like. I told her a lot of things were in Flux. She said she wanted to help with things this week because the kids are going back to school. I told her that I was going to take care of it and she didn't need to worry. I then went downstairs and spent time with S11. Later when I came back to our room I told the W she could help any way she wanted, and explained how I had always taken care of these things so she didn't have any extra stress. When I went to bed she seemed a little sad, I think me communicating why I am doing somethings is working. I think she is starting to see that things I did was not to hurt her but to keep her from stress. I don't know how long extra she is staying but any is good.
