What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

Update: Started reading DR about half way through.

W came into my room and started talking about our relationship looking for justification. I tried to continue to validate her while venting a bit of my own frustrations and letting her know how I felt. After I felt myself getting emotional and her seeming refusal to leave even though the conversation was clearly not going anywhere I excused myself for a run and she stormed off and closed her room door. When I got back I apologized for leaving and simply told her I started to feel emotional and needed a bit of time to cool off. We talked a bit more and she is still seeking justification for her actions and has no interest in R. I assume this was another cheeseless tunnel I will monitor her actions for the next few days to make sure. On the bright side I got to vent a bit and hopefully plant some seeds that may make her realize I've learned so much from this.