W did not come to the beach today. She sent me a text early in the morning saying she had a lot to do unpacking and getting stuff for her place and getting it ready for the kids today. No big deal. I went anyways with the kids and met with other friends who have kids my kids play with. We had a great day. W was texting me through out the day asking how the beach was and stuff. I just sent pictures of the kids playing in the water. It was getting close to the time she was going to drive down to get the kids. I told her we were having such a good time that we would be a few more hours and I would just bring the kids to her and drop them off. She said ok. A little while later she said if I wanted we could meet somewhere and the 4 of us eat dinner. I said sure. I got the kids cleaned up and we went to meet her. I was dressed pretty sharp like I was headed out on a date. She was tshirting it. The kids were asleep in the car when we got there and she was worried they would not wake up to eat. I told her it was ok, because I could not stay long anyways. She seemed a little confused. We got our food and instead of keeping a conversation going, I did what she did so often which drove me f'ing insane. I picked up my phone and looked like I was texting someone. I was reading, smiling, even a few light laughs. (if nothing else a total 180 for me because I never interact over the phone with anyone in a restaurant, unless it is business and it is brief) She just sat there quiet. She made a mention about the kids not really being completely awake. I said very cheerfully, ok we can go. I got up and we all went out to the cars. We put the kids in their seats and I unloaded all the kiddos stuff from my car to hers. Her car was packed and we ended up standing right in front of each other. Before she could say or do anything, I said since next weekend was a holiday weekend, she can keep the kids through Tuesday morning, and I would pick them up from school that afternoon. (we had actually not discussed custody arrangements since she got here) She said ok, and I said great, I will see you in a little over a week. I smiled really pleasant and went to my car. My oldest son called me back over and asked if he could come visit me this week. I told him he could do whatever he wanted. he has been asking lots of questions lately.
Anyways, I got back into my car and picked up my phone right away as if I was anxious to read something from it. She noticed and drove off. 45 minutes later she sent me a text asking if I left one of their lunch boxes in my car. I said no i put both in her car, and she replied ok, maybe it is still in mine. 15 minutes later she asked me where his library book was. I told her. 20 minutes later another text asking to take apicture of some instructions for my oldest sons project this week. I guess I need to answer, so I will use my dad's phone to take the picture and send it. She does not need to know I am home and not out somewhere.
Oh, and the stuff I was reading on the phone during dinner.... the DB forum. Haha, the irony...
Whoops, I forgot to hit submit. Anyways, I just got back from having a few drinks out with friends (decided to go out anyways..) and I got a couple more texts and questions of mild importance.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16