There is a fine line being kind to another person and being pushed all over the place.
I am thinking that things and issues related to your daughters...sure you can help out for you'll co-parent together. Like it or not...that is the reality at the moment.
As for things like asking for Philips screwdrivers, etc...just say, "It would be best to get your own toolbox for stuff like this as you set up your own home. I am sure you can figure this out."
If she gets nasty, just reminder her that she's made the choice to move out. Sometimes it is okay to throw out truth darts once in a while. Sure, she'll get mad! She cannot just walk all over you any more.
Any progress on the lawyer front? What's up with him?
