Your wife doesn't appear to have a grasp on what D is. She is (in my very humble opinion) taking advantage of you. I feel you can be cordial AND firm on things that matter to you. How your w reacts is really on her. You aren't her Handy Manny their to help her with every little hiccup in life.
She wants to be single and find happiness. Let her do it.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
