I am in same situation; I know W is up to no good but it is so hard being alone that when she tosses scraps of affection my way I have a very hard time refusing and most of the time I do not succeed. When they know they have you on a leash there is no incentive for them to change.
Me37, W30, S7 Married 10yrs 05/11/04 ILYBINILWY 22/09/13 Disc. OM1 26/09/13 Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14 Affair Confession 21/06/14
W and I share same apartment (for a few more days). W isn't pushing for D.