I got it. A big part of her problem was unmet needs. As far as her EA it may not even be real just me panicing. She is starting to talk to me more and starting to ask me to do things that she had stopped doing.
She asked me to go to the gym and I would take her and go to sleep in the car. Same thing with the pool and stores. She just wanted to spend time together and I would sit in the car.
