switching threads, switching gears.....

[twinmom]

While your H is involved with OW, YOU do not meet his needs. When I say dint be a doormat be the door I mean show him that he needs to either walk through it or stay inside...........

He needs to know your not going to live in an open marriage. THAT is a boundary for your sanity and well-being. Whenever he brings up OW tell him "I am not going to live in an open marriage" and either walk away or hang up the phone. If it is a text delete it and don't respond.

You are nothing more than a co-parent right now, show him that. My H used to text non stop, I felt better when I would ignore everything all day and respond to the important things in one text or email at night.