Igit newbie needs help part 3

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Days are up and down. This am w calls me into room asked me why I didn't go out last night,I did she was sleeping when I left. We talked for a few about schedule for the day. She needed to work on school stuff so I told her I would take kids to church then pool. She said she needed to go to church w me to work in nursery we could leave kids at home. Got home from pool took kids and her to dinner. We got home w was nice gave me a hug I kissed her on cheek and said goodnight. I don't know what to think, I am going to really try and be her friend,she is so bull headed and stubborn,just can't get suckered into fighting with her.