I hear you, Pilot. DB is pretty specific and detailed but there are still times that I find myself going "Ok, what am I supposed to do in this sitch??" Usually I find the answer is GAL and detach. LOL
I, like you, often post as a stream of consciousness and a way to work out my confusion or multiple thoughts at odds with themselves (like how there's a war going on in my head as if I have no control? Yeah, that's how it feels anyway.). This site really helps with that.
25 has a way of dialing in abruptly which, for me, is necessary. In all of the muck floating around I can't seem to see the buoy I think I'm swimming toward... she has been a HUGE help but it has had to come as HUGE 4x6s because I need it. Plus it's teaching me that I have a tendency to defend my defense and resist like it's an art form. That's me though.
