You are right Lisa. 25 always makes good points and she has great insight. I put a lot of weight into what she says...even if she thinks I do not smile

And yes, it is true there is no easy way out or escape by simply walking away. Divorce when you have kids with someone means you never really divorce. You are stuck with them for better or for worse. Hmm...where did that phrase come from?

A lot of what I type is free thought and rambling. It is tossing ideas or feelings out there if for no other reason to get em out of my head. A lot of it is confusion based as well. As much as DB tries to lay out a path to follow, sometimes I find myself lost and confused, not knowing which way to go. But, I am still here...for now smile


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16