H dropped the kids off and had a bowl of soup. We did not sit down all together to eat bc kids were bathing and not yet hungry but H at least had some. We chatted a bit but he did not hang around long.
Interestingly, he mentioned that everyone in his family went out to dinner last night to say good-bye to his eldest daughter who is headed back to college. He said he would have invited me but felt uncomfortable after I said no to going to lunch yesterday. I think I have to be careful about possibly sending him mixed messages and maybe should accept offers unless I really, truly have a conflict.
He seemed a bit off but frankly, I'm feeling a bit tired and probably come off as a little 'off' myself. He sent me a text after leaving thanking me again for the yummy soup.
Overall, not fantastic but basically a good encounter.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
