Hey pilot! I think 25 made a lot of great points but I also see where you are coming from. I think sometimes we LBS get tired and frustrated, even when things are going sort of OK. Then we start looking around and thinking "do I really want to keep trying or should I take the 'easy way'?"
But we DBers know that the easy way is not so easy. That being divorced is no party and will be difficult, especially on the kids.
But yeah I get where you are coming from pilot. And I know part of it is just venting to us here, right? Telling us your thoughts, questions and concerns is good.
I too have the same questions. Should I wait around for him to wake up or go find someone else? There are plenty of fish in the sea and I love me some fish. If I had kids I would probably think differently, but maybe not. Perhaps it is also a reaction to the rejection, to want to go find someone else who will tell you how hot and funny and smart you are when your WAS has left you in the dust.
OK, rambling over. Just wanted to say I think I get it. But listen to 25! Hugs, LisaB
