Dealing with WAW part 4

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Where did 25 say this:

That is kind of an unnecessary statement implying those who come to the realization the M they had to their S really is not worth pursing somehow have no integrity or self esteem.

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I think it's growth if through the process people here decide that maybe they are hanging on to something out of fear. That realization can bolster integrity and increase self-esteem.

Filing for D in order to date doesn't seem to be a part of the process, but rather driven by fear or the belief that there's something wrong with us if we're not in a R.

But maybe I misunderstand what I'm reading.