The road to a relationship dead end, which most of us have traveled. We don't put our most important Rs first, we let the background noise take over. I know I did.

It seems he had some hurt along the way, too.

Here's the good news, you aren't in a R with that guy at present. You can do all those fun, interesting things you so enjoy. What freedom, huh?

He may not be that guy anymore but you're going to have to shake that ghost to really see.

Beginner's mind.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss