H invited me to the beach again today with the kids. I said no again. I actually have legit plans, friend coming over to help me trim some hedges.

So that's basically the 3rd time he's invited me to do something and I've declined. Two beach invites and lunch yesterday. Should I invite him to do something at this point or continue to let it be? Of course I did initiate the hockey thing but left before we actually got to spend any time together.

Thoughts?

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14